My Ex Is Threatening Me After a Divorce. What Can I Do?

 Posted on August 25, 2025 in Family Law

Once a divorce is finalized, spouses can part ways and lead their own lives. Unfortunately, not every spouse takes divorce well. Some people have to put up with threats from their former partners, living in a heightened state of alertness and anxiety well after the marriage has ended. 

If you are dealing with threats of physical harm from your ex, a Collin County, TX family law attorney at The Law Office of Linda Risinger can help you take appropriate legal action. Our skilled litigators have more than 30 years of legal experience handling divorce- and family law-related issues on behalf of our clients.

Am I Eligible for a Protective Order?

A protective order is a court order intended to defend victims of family violence. These orders can be issued against immediate family and household members, including former spouses. Even if your ex-spouse has not physically harmed you yet, you can still petition the courts for a protective order. 

In Texas, the definition of family violence includes threats of bodily injury, physical harm, assault, or sexual assault. Our family law attorneys can go over your case with you to discuss your legal options and see if a protective order is necessary. If you feel that you are in immediate danger, do not hesitate to call the police and seek shelter.

How Do I Obtain a Protective Order?

There are multiple kinds of protective orders in Texas that offer different safety measures. The most immediate form of protection you can get is a temporary ex parte order, which you can obtain on short notice without your abuser present. 

To get this kind of protective order, you must show the judge that you are in "clear and present danger" of family violence. If granted, it may last up to 20 days, though it can be renewed if needed. While in effect, a temporary order can stop your ex from contacting you, going near you, or otherwise harassing you.

In order to get long-term relief from your ex’s threats, you can get a final protective order. This order can last for up to two years with the possibility of extension. Before you can obtain a final protective order, you must attend a court hearing, where your ex will also have a chance to contest the protective order.

What If My Ex Violates the Protective Order?

A court order is only effective if it can be enforced. If your ex violates the terms set by the temporary or final protective order, he or she could be arrested and charged with a crime. Your ex could also be held in contempt of court for violating the judge’s orders, which is punishable by fines and jail time. Our lawyers can help you take swift measures to hold your ex accountable for a violation.

Contact a Collin County, TX Domestic Violence Lawyer Today

Threats from your ex-spouse should be taken seriously. At The Law Office of Linda Risinger, we can help you seek protection from an unstable or abusive former partner. To schedule a free consultation with our Frisco, TX family law attorneys, call us at 972-294-6533 today.